Pastor Don's Blog
The Offensiveness of Grace

In the story of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15, the older brother becomes very upset with the Father because of the grace and acceptance offered to the younger son upon his return.

The scripture says, “He was angry and refused to go in.” (Luke 15:28, ESV). 

The Father came out to talk with his son — he wanted to celebrate both of his children in His presence. He said, “Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost, and is found.” (Luke 15:32, ESV)

The Father’s grace was offensive to the older son. I have been contemplating on the “rest of the story” about the prodigal in the last three months. I have come to a very clear conclusion: Grace offends the very religious.

The Pharisees were offended when Jesus healed the paralytic (Mark 2).

The teachers of the law were offended when Jesus ate and drank with sinners (Matthew 9:10-13).

The disciples were offended when Jesus rebuked their anger in wanting to call down fire from heaven (Luke 9:51-56).

Religious purists were offended when Peter went into the home of a Gentile to share the good new of Christ (Acts 10 & 11).

Jews were offended when Paul offered grace instead of circumcision to the Gentiles (Acts 15).

The free offer of salvation through the grace given by Jesus and secured by his atoning sacrifice on the cross has always been offensive to the “religious”. Religion says, “You must prove yourself worthy of salvation.” Grace says, “You are not worthy, I offer it to you freely.”

In the course of my ministry I have often been criticized for people I have embraced and accepted and ministered to:

  • The African American woman who came to our church who confided in me that she had AIDS;
  • The senior citizen who had serious mental disorders that had required hospitalizations and clinical treatment;
  • The Hispanic families who wanted to worship Jesus, even when their legal status was undetermined;
  • A group of lesbian women, going through drug and alcohol treatment and participating in a bible study sponsored by our church;
  • An individual who had experience the sin of adultery and divorce who began to make tentitive steps back toward involvement with church;
  • The senior woman who came to our church seeking a very traditional worship experience;
  • The Mormon family who were simply seeking friendship and an opportunity to fit in with others.

In all of these situations I have experienced the criticism of those who believe that grace comes with a cost — you can experience grace if you get your life in order.

Yet, in each of these sitautions, including in my own life, grace is offered to those whose lives are messy, challenging, sinful, broken, weary, prejudiced and closed-minded. Grace comes and then the change comes.

To the extremely religious, these instances of God’s grace offered is offensive. Whether the offense came to the Pharisees of Jesus’ day or the extrememly religious in our day, the truth is the same: Grace offends the very religious!

I believe that I have been called (along with every believer), becuase I (and we) have experienced His free grace to offer grace to all — even if it is offensive to some.

The Father of the Prodigal invited the older son to join in the party started with grace — lay aside the preconceptions of religious dogma and embrace grace, freely offered, completely undeserved and offered through our Redeemer and Savior Jesus Christ.

Join me in celebrating Grace today!

A Patriotic Quandry

You have watched with me the news the last couple of days about the death of Osama bin Laden. You cannot turn on the news, read a newspaper or log online without seeing headlines detailing the attack upon his compound and his entourage with the result of his death.

I am satisfied that justice has been done. Ever since the attacks of 9/11, every American heart has longed for the day when bin Laden would have to give an earthly account for his actions and his violence. Certainly, he was a evil and vile man who corrupted hundreds, killed thousands and influenced the entire world.

Because of his violent streak and his avid Islamic fundamentalism, I doubt he had the opportunity in his adult life to hear about the gospel of Jesus Christ.

I wonder if the man who spawned such hatred heard about the Love of God.

I am curious if one of the most violent men on earth ever heard about the Prince of Peace.

I contemplate whether the man who vowed to destroy the “Great Satan” ever heard about the Person who is more powerful than all adversaries.

I wonder if he ever heard about Jesus.

I don’t know that he would have even accepted if he did hear. I am pretty sure he would have dismissed them, attacked them or even just, flat out killed the person who would tell him about Jesus.

As an American, I am filled with satisfaction. But there is that nagging thought about his eternal destiny. No doubt he is spending eternity without Almighty God in an agonizing separation. And for that I am not satisfied, happy or pleased.

The scripture in Ezekiel 18:23 says, “Do I take any pleasure in the death of the wicked? declares the Sovereign LORD. Rather, am I not pleased when they turn from their ways and live?”

God is not wanting any to perish (2 Peter 3:9) and while justice may have been done, there is little pleasure in seeing a man enter into eternity without Jesus Christ.

I am satisfied that justice has been done…but I am troubled by the glee and joyousness I see over the death of someone like Osama.

I am also troubled that so many others enter their eternal destiny without Jesus — we need (I need) to do more to get the message of Jesus and his love out!

In reponse to my patriotic quandry, I resove to be the best, most faithful witness I can be.

So can you!

Your Pastor,

Don

Good Friday?

Have you ever wondered why they call Good Friday good?

It certainly was not becuse of the events: Jesus was condemned in an illegal trial; he was beaten within an inch of his life; he was nailed to a cross and continually revialed by the religious people watching; ultimately, he died while hanging on the cross having been abandoned by most of his followers. How can anyone call this good?

It is not becuase of the events but the reason and the meaning behind the events.

We are accepted by God because Jesus was condemned.

We experience hope and promise because he suffered.

We are forgiven because he shed his blood.

We have life because he gave up his life.

The spiritual effects of the day are what makes the Friday “Good”. We are the spiritual beneficiaries of all of the activities of this day.

So when you hear about “Good Friday” remember…it wasn’t good for Jesus because He suffered and died; it is good for us.

Thank God this day is so good…because now we can know Him and live in continual relationship with Him.

Remember Jesus and celebrate “GOOD” Friday!

Your Pastor,

Don

Our Ongoing Exam

As I write this, I am preparing for my oral examination for the completion of my Doctor of Ministry degree. I am required to meet with a faculty committee and they will subject the project I have completed to review, comments, critique and examination. Needless to say, I am getting a little nervous about this event.

But it has also got me thinking — our entire life is an exam of sorts. We live every day in light of the ongoing examination by the gaze of our Heavenly Father. Psalm 53:2 says:

     God looks down from heaven 
        on all mankind 
     to see if there are any who understand, 
        any who seek God.

The Lord is aways watching — he watches our actions, our thoughts, our deeds, our words, and our hearts. In a sense, we always are facing an exam. Thank the good Lord He is gracious when passing verdict upon our lives.

However, it reminds me of the little chorus we teach our children to sing:

     “Be careful little hands what you do;

     Be careful little hands what you do,

     For the Father up above is looking down in love,

     so be careful little hands what you do!

So be careful out there…remember the Lord is watching and loving.

Honor Him today!

Pastor Don

Website Operational!

During the last week my wife has diligently done work on updating our website. It is current (and still being updated with more information and material). She has done a fantastic job and I am excited about having a good forum for our congregation to direct people toward and share information with.

Let me encourage you to check back regularly. We will be doing the following on our site:

  • Keeping current calendar dates for upcoming events;
  • Posting a Pastor’s blog that will be daily or weekly thoughts from me;
  • Presenting relevant congregational material (like our upcoming Constitution and Bylaws changes)
  • Registering for our events through the site or by creating printable forms for people to register for VBS and other activities through the year.

I am excited to share this with you and to share my thoughts with you during the week.

Please feel free to respond to anything I say or ask me any questions you might have. This is an open forum for us to talk, chat and celebrate the work of God in our lives and in our church.

Thanks for letting me share! I love being your pastor…

Pastor Don